Message
Approach this as if for the first time. Your experience is valuable, but your assumptions may be blocking the new answer.
Shadow to watch
Staying a beginner to avoid commitment.
Try this
Learn one small new thing related to your question.
Love & relationships
You think you already know how this person will react. Try meeting them as if for the first time: ask about something you've never asked, and listen without predicting. Curiosity can make a familiar relationship feel new, or a new one feel less scary.
Work & money
Your experience is an asset, but it may be telling you 'that won't work' too quickly. Approach this problem like a newcomer and learn one small new thing about it. Just don't use 'I'm still learning' as a reason to avoid taking responsibility.
Yourself
You don't have to have yourself all figured out. Look at your life with the curiosity of someone who just arrived. What would surprise you? What would you want to try? Starting fresh is allowed, as many times as you need.