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Effort you made earlier is ripening. Receive it. Being able to receive is also a skill.
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Never feeling it is enough.
Try this
List three things you have achieved this year.
Love & relationships
Care you've put into a relationship is starting to come back to you. Let it in: accept the kind word, the help, the invitation, without brushing it off. Being received well makes the other person happy too, so there's no need to keep proving you deserve it.
Work & money
Work you did months ago is starting to pay off, whether as recognition, a new request, or income. Take a moment to actually register it instead of moving straight to the next goal. Knowing what worked tells you where to put your effort next.
Yourself
You may be quick to see what's missing and slow to see what you've done. Today, look at the harvest. Write down three things you finished this year, and let yourself feel a little proud. That's not arrogance; it's simply accurate.