Message
What you see in another is also a reflection of you. Look at the relationship as a mirror, gently.
Shadow to watch
Losing yourself in someone else.
Try this
Write what bothers you about them — then ask where it lives in you.
Love & relationships
What irritates you about your partner or someone close might be pointing back at you. Write down what bothers you about them, then ask where that same thing lives in you. Look gently, and keep your own shape. A mirror shows you; it doesn't replace you.
Work & money
A coworker or client is getting under your skin. Before reacting, notice what they reflect about you, maybe a standard you hold too tightly or a quality you've been suppressing. Seeing that makes the relationship easier and keeps you from shaping yourself around their approval.
Yourself
The way you see others says something about how you see yourself. Spend a few quiet minutes reflecting: who have you admired or resented lately, and why? Look without blame, and the answers become a gentle map of your own heart.